Throwing In The Towel

Throwing In The Towel There is nothing more devastating to a marriage than the possibility of divorce. Too many of us, enter into a marriage with false illusions and expectations of what the union should be. We forget, or do not acknowledge one simple truth: The Only Place Where People Live “Happily Ever After” Are […]

Submission and Passiveness

Submission and Passiveness A lie we are told is: You can run your own life; you don’t have to submit to anyone else’s authority.  This deception is one of the first fallen for, as it is one of the great deceptions that resulted in Adam and Eve’s exile from the Garden of Eden.   Somehow […]

Love Me, Do As I Say

Love Me, Do As I Say The norms of marital roles are all about political correctness. We see it more and more now.  Men are coming home to take care of home, wife, and child. Women are becoming entrepreneurs and businesswomen. Likewise, we see it in our media. Have you watched Divorce Court? I confess […]

Somebody To Love

Somebody To Love This is something I once believed, and see a number of women and men alike saying all the time. “I would be happy if I had a girlfriend.” “I would be happy if I had a boyfriend.” “I would be happy if I had a wife.” “I would be happy if I […]

Lies About Marriage

Lies About Marriage Since the dawn of time, Satan has waged war not only on God and His children but the sanctity of marriage. God designed marriage so as to reflect His glory and redemptive purposes, through which His love for us is personified. So when Satan threatened that sacred union by deceiving Eve in the […]

It’s A Man’s World

It’s A Man’s World  Growing up, I remember dreaming of getting married and settling down. Yes, I was one of those girls who never tired of playing house and even developed a natural habit of looking out for those who are younger than I. I use to daydream about marrying a wonderful man, having children, […]

I Don’t Need You

I Don’t Need You Sometimes I feel like my relationship with God looks a lot like the push and pull of a relationship centered on: “I want you, but I do not need you.” It is this awkward bind that keeps you tied to someone yet, that same commitment is one that seems one sided. […]

Little Lies We Believe About Priorities

Little Lies We Believe About Priorities Women assume many roles in their day to day life. Mother, daughter, sister, friend, lover, nurse, cook, cleaner, are just some that come to mind. These roles, the switching of hats can make us easy prey to certain deceptions. I wonder if this can also be said of men […]

Sugar Coated Sin Part V: No Victory

Sugar Coated Sin Part V: No Victory Romans 7:21-24 New International Version (NIV) 21 So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. 22 For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; 23 but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law […]