I Wanna Talk About Me

I Wanna Talk About Me   When we’re caught in a whirlpool or a tide, the first thought we tend to have reads much like a Toby Keith song. We get into the mindset that it’s all about ‘Me.’ So the first thing we’re going to talk about is, well, ourselves. Let’s face it. As good […]

Change Would Do Me Good

Change Would Do Me Good When will it end? That’s the question we tend to ask a lot when we’re faced with trials and tribulations. Once we find ourselves in a predicament, we naturally seem to want to find a way out. So when we struggle and don’t see an end in sight we start […]

I Shouldn’t Have To Suffer So

I Shouldn’t Have To Suffer So It has become a widely believed and accepted notion that somehow being a Christian should get folks a ‘get outta everything troublesome card.’ It’s almost like we’ve become of the mind that we shouldn’t have to experience any stress, pain, hardship, or strife. When we do, our first response […]

If Only Things Were Different

If Only Things Were Different Do our circumstances define us? This is a popular belief of which a number of us hold. That somehow, if things weren’t the way they are, that somehow we would be different. Otherwise, we tend to use our circumstances to excuse our actions. We have begun to adopt the line […]

Why Are You Such A Downer?

Why Are You Such A Downer? One of the most unpleasant things many people experience is depression. A common misconception I’ve not only fallen prey to but have also witnessed being demonstrated within the church is: The Answer To Depression Must First Be Sought Through Medication Or Therapy. While there may be nothing wrong with […]


Self-Control Once we believe that we can’t help how we feel, it becomes easy to start believing that we also can’t control how we act as a result of how we feel. It suddenly becomes okay to lose control. We allow ourselves to become controlled by our emotions, acting without thought, and taking action simply […]

I Can’t Help It

I Can’t Help It It is quite possible that we can’t help how we feel. We may not be able to avoid feeling apprehensive about exams, physicals, or bills. We may not be able to avoid feeling annoyed when the person in line in front of us pulls out a humungous stack of coupons, but […]

It Has To Be True, I Feel It…

It Has To Be True, I Feel It… We’ve heard it in movies, perhaps even read it in books. That affirmation of belief in something, and why? Because of a feeling in their gut. At the same time, we’ve also seen this: You can’t cry, only the weak cry. It’s not good to be angry, […]